Monday, July 18, 2011

Hope Solo

Photo: Annie Leibovitz for Nike

Having kids changed everything for me. 

I grew up in the Midwest and played football, basketball, track, and baseball. Couldn't have played soccer if I wanted to because there were no teams, and I never even heard of lacrosse until I went to college in another state a little to the north and east. For me and my family and friends, football was the most fun to play and the most fun to watch. 

I selected Notre Dame because of the Architecture program, but watching Joe Montana and the Irish come from behind to beat the Houston Cougars in the 1979 Cotton Bowl sealed the deal. I still love to watch Irish Football.
When we played soccer for physical training in my old Army unit, none of us had any real skill. So we bastardized the game to make it more "interesting." For example, we played with two balls, no dedicated goalies, no goal boxes, no off-sides or penalties of any kind, and no refs or side judges to slow down the game. So, basically, we played rugby with two balls until someone got knocked out.

But my kids are growing up in a different time and place: thirty years later and on the east coast. They tolerate my fanatic interest in Notre Dame football, but unlike me, they do not dream of throwing the game-winning touchdown pass. And so football is not something we actually share. 

Both of my girls tried soccer and at least two other sports. For them, especially for my youngest, soccer is as important as football was for me. I go to the games and I work at understanding what's going on because that's my kid out there. My youngest plays goalie on a travel team and the level of play is steadily improving as the skills and awareness develop. I really enjoy watching her play. 

Hope Solo is my second favorite goalie.

Soccer is a great sport to watch, if you have a reason to care. 

Belgian National Day




July 21st is Belgian National Day, commemorating the day in 1831 that Leopold of Saxe-Coburg swore allegiance to the Belgian constitution and became the first King of the new country.

July 21st is not Belgian Independence Day and don't let anyone fool you. Belgians had won their independence from the Netherlands in 1830, so July 21st of following year marks the day the constitutional monarchy was formally adopted and the new Nation of Belgium was born.

Anyone planning to celebrate this auspicious occasion?


  • Attending a re-enactment of the swearing in and coronation at the Sint Jacobs Church on the Coudenberg in Central Brussels, perhaps?
  • Or maybe dining out on moules and frittes at a local restaurant?
  • How about savoring some Belgian brews and chocolates at home?


It's Belgian Restaurant Week in Washington, DC! http://wapo.st/rpNDrE



Posted for PPG!

What the Heck is Hoka Hey?

I have written before about my dream of an epic motorcycle adventure. Imagine: two wheels and a backpack, the open road, and a month to ride through the best that North America has to offer. So when I saw an invitation to come to Patriot University at Patriot Harley-Davidson in Fairfax and learn about the Hoka Hey Challenge, I signed up.

The Hoka Hey Motorcycle Challenge is a 10,000+ mile road rally. This, the second year in the rally's history, will take riders through all 48 US states and into Canada. $500,000 in prize money will go to the top 25 finishers. Applications were capped at 1000 entrants who each paid a $1000 entry fee.

Patriot is sponsoring Keith "Dino" DeNinno. Dino was the guest speaker at the Patriot University session on Saturday, July 16th. He spoke for two hours to a packed house, sharing lessons learned from his other endurance rides, and offering tips to prospective riders. I bit hard. Not this year, but next year...

I'd still like to go on the rides I've designed, but the advantage of riding next year's Hoka Hey Challenge is that I'd be sure to have other riders and support crews around. As much as I like the freedom of the open road, I also like the camaraderie of being on a team. An organized rally offers the best of both.

Hoka Hey is a Lakota phrase meaning, "It's a good day to die." My interpretation: competing in the Hoka Hey Challenge is part of a life well-lived.

 Much more info is here: Hoka Hey

Flag Counter » Visitor Information


Welcome Israel, the 16th country to visit PhilosFX! And welcome Louisiana, the 27th state to have graced these pages since we installed the Flag Counter. I am grateful for the visits folks are making from all around the world and throughout these United States. It's fun and rewarding to see the map fill up! I strive to provide some content here that will keep the curious returning...


Comments welcome, as always!

Spotify?



Spotify, the award-winning music service that’s taken Europe by storm, has now come to U.S. shores. Millions of tracks ready to play instantly, on your computer and your phone. Any track, any time, anywhere--and it's FREE!


I just got one of the first  accounts in the US. Click here to check if you are also eligible for one.  


Hat tip to Kyle D. who introduced me to Spotify when I visited him in England.

Expansion


Claudia Rain took the amazing photograph and wrote this caption:
Paige Bradley created one of the most striking sculptures I’ve seen in recent times. Her masterpiece, entitled Expansion, is a beautiful woman seeking inner piece but fractured and bleeding with light...
Incredible!

Hat tip to Sally G.

Dalai Lama on Happiness


The Dali Lama's Facebook status update for 18 July 2011
We have different degrees of happiness and different kinds of suffering. Material objects give rise to physical happiness, while spiritual development gives rise to mental happiness. Since we experience both physical and mental happiness, we need both material and spiritual development. This is why, for our own good and that of society we need to balance material progress with inner development.
Related blog posts on the quest for happiness:


Apr 11, 2011
And the short book which caught my eye is the Happiness Manifesto, by Nic Marks. I am captivated! I'm ready to announce my second career as a traveling Happiness Manifesto consultant. And by traveling, I mean via 2008 ...

May 17, 2011
A New Gauge Helps to See What's Beyond Happiness. Marty Seligman replaces "Authentic Happiness" with "Flourish," a more holistic view of well-being. “Well-being cannot exist just in your own head,” he writes. ...

Jul 10, 2011
Is QoL Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness? This tripartite goal is the basis of the Declaration of Independence (and similar documents from other nations), yet it strikes me as hard to measure or score. ...

May 03, 2011
The key to happiness in life is finding balance, and in managing the conflict that arises when different beings have different ideas of pleasure and pain, of good and evil. One man's terrorist is another's freedom ...


Aug 07, 2010
For those of us interested in metrics: I've enjoyed recent conversations with many friends about indices besides the Gross Domestic Product (GDP) that may offer a more holistic view of the health and happiness of a society. ...



Nov 30, 2010
What is happiness? There may be many definitions of happiness, making it hard to measure. Taking the glass half empty approach, some economists define happiness as the absence of misery. The so-called Misery Index is a new counterpoint ...